She responded to Gwyneth’s encouragement by making it clear she has no problem with devoting an abundance of time to herself at the moment.

“I’m actually in that place where I think a lot of people, I’ve heard, that go through divorce, it’s almost like you start dating yourself again, like you actually make time for you again, and I love dating me,” Kelly shared. “I’m actually not looking for it.”

That said, she admitted about Gwyneth’s situation, “It’s also a beautiful thing for a lot of people like me that are going through divorce that do want that in the future, to know that it can and will probably happen for you.”

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